Sunday, September 2
Just a pushover.
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you know, sometimes i hesitate in giving people the extra freedom, patience.. and all because human nature is as such and sooner or later (usually sooner), they will start to take it for granted.
and this is not just a theoretical statement of mine. i am sure countless people out there can relate to it.
it has happened with my parents, the ex best friend, friends and basically, people out there who matter to me.
it is annoying, really.
sometimes trying to give one's second best, is as good as not trying at all. especially when one is actually given choices. and you chose to give one your best, and in an attempt to salvage the situation, you appear to be trying/or actually do try very hard to give the other your second best. and mind you, i am talking about non-devastating options. (i am not that unreasonable.)
but seriously, it does not work with me. i have been seasoned to identify such situations. remember my long history of being in this position? yup, once bitten, twice shy..and so they say.
shame on you, if you fool me once.
shame on me, if you fool me twice.
and trust me, it's been shame on me for a really long while already..